Society tells us it is wrong to steal, yet burglaries, shoplifting and even armed robberies are relatively common. But what about kleptomaniacs-those who suffer from a compulsive urge to steal, even though they do not need to? That's the big question of the day.

I used to doubt if this thing about kleptomania is real until I came across a lady called Jerrela who is suffering from this ordeal, she has hot hands, she just can't help it, she steals uncontrollably.

Read Jerrela's story........................

Looking back, I still do not understand all the aspects that made up my problem. I recall that the one thing that drove me to steal more than anything else was the intense irresistible pleasure it gave me.

Sometimes after I had stolen something and the thrill had worn off, I would feel a bit guity, even stupid because of my actions, but later on my behavior became an addiction and stealing was a normal part of life for me.

I stole as frequently and unthinkingly as people smoke. I first started stealing when I was 16. I am still not sure what triggered it. All I remembered clearly is the good feeling it gave me.

My life of stealing continued until one incident that cost my relationship with my boyfriend Ralph and finally prompted me to seek help.

I can still recall the incident vividly that cost me my relationship. Ralph my ex boyfriend didn't know I had this problem .On the day Ralph planned to propose to me, the intensity of my condition hit me like a ton of bricks. We were in a fancy restaurant and Ralph was digging in his jacket pocket for the ring he had bought me. I knew what he was doing because I had actually stolen the ring from that pocket! After a few more minutes of fumbling in his Jacket, he said he thought he must have dropped it in the car and got up to go and fetch it.

When he left, I went to the ladies toilet. For some reasons, perhaps I unconsciously wanted to be caught I left my bag behind.

When I return, I saw Ralph sitting at the table with my bag open in front of him. He was horrified. He was looking for a pain killer in my bag and he discovered the ring there as well as the cutlery and salt shakers from the restaurant table and a pair of sunglasses he told me had gone missing months before.

It was the first time I felt real remorse for my actions. I realized that I had hurt Ralph and betrayed his trust in me. He did not confront me, but the look on his face said it all. He was deeply shocked, disappointed and disgusted. He simply got up and left and I have never saw him or spoke to him again.

"This is the end of my story of shame" I need help, somebody pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Helpppppppppppppppp Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee."

Welcome back readers, Now tell me, how can we offer Jerrela help? your suggestion and comments will be highly appreciated.

Happy Valetine day to all readers of my blog.

We all know that Valetine's day is associated with romance, chocolates, red hearts and flowers- but have you ever wondered where did the custom originate, and in whose name do we celebrate it?

Here below is the story of Valetine!!!!!!!

In 270AD, Cladius was the emperor of Rome,and known to be extremely cruel. His palace was near a temple, where a priest called Valetine served and was immensely popular with the people of the city because of his wisdom,compassion and generosity.

When wars broke out in the Roman Empire, Cladius ordered the young men in his realm to come forward and fight. However, they were reluctant to do so. Angry, Cladius then banned all celebration of anniversaries and forbades any engagements to take place.

Valetine, however,continued secretly marrying and bkessing young couples in his temple in front of the sacred altar, and became known as the friend of lovers throughout Rome.

Unfortunately, his actions were eventually made known to Cladius, who ordered him arrested and flung into a dungeon, where he languished and died.

Valetine was buried on February 14th by his devoted friends in the church of ST Praxedes in the city, where his vault can still be seen. And so, the date of his burial became the day honouring him and his belief thatlove is stronger than any ruler.

SO TO ALL LOVERS AND COUPLES OUT THERE, HAPPY VALENTINE DAY TO YOU ALL.

LOTS OF LOVE FROM EJIRO

Dating process:
6 weeks : I love U, I love U, I love U.
6 months : Of course I love U.
6 years : GOD, if I didn't love U, then why the hell did I propose?

Back from Work:
6 weeks : Honey, I'm home.
6 months : BACK!!
6 years : What did your mom cook for us today??

Gifts:
6 weeks : Honey, I really hope you liked the ring.
6 months : I bought you a painting; it would fit the motif in the living room.
6 years : Here's the money. Buy yourself something.

Phone Ringing:
6 weeks : Baby, somebody wants you on the phone.
6 months : Here, for you.
6 years : PHONE RINGING.

Cooking:
6 weeks : I never knew food could taste so good!
6 months : What are we having for dinner tonight?
6 years : AGAIN!!!!

Apology:
6 weeks : Honey muffin, don't you worry, Ill never hold this against you.
6 months : Watch out! Don't do it again.
6 years : What's not to understand about what I just said??

New Dress:
6 weeks : Oh my God, you look like an angel in that dress.
6 months : You bought a new dress again???
6 years : How much did THAT cost me?

Planning for Vacations:
6 weeks : How do 2 weeks in Vienna or anywhere you please sound??
6 months : What's so bad about going to Istanbul on a charter plane?
6 years : Travel? What's so bad about staying home???

TV:
6 weeks : Baby, what would you like us to watch tonight?
6 months : I like this movie.
6 years : I'm going to watch ESPN, if you're not in the mood, go to bed, I can stay up by myself
he he he

I had a swell weekend, although I did a lot of clean up at home over the weekend. But I rested very well after church yesterday. Today is Monday, thank God for another beautiful day and a prosperous week ahead.

About a week ago, I wrote a post about a couple named Sandra and Humphrey who broke up their relationship after six years. And I had different comments from different readers.

Here below is a comment I got from a member name (SideJump):

“6 years of arguing, that is their pattern of relationships. It could well be that she will return. But yes, it is no life for the child “

Sidejump, I want to tell you that your prediction that she will return really came to pass. Sandra is back with her child. It didn't even take up to a week, from all indication they both cannot live without each other. But now, we the neighbors are wondering, if they won't fight again. That is the big question in everyone mind.

We just hope that this time around, they will iron out all their differences once and for all and if possible legalized their marriage in a proper way. I hope you all we join me in wishing them the very best in their up and down relationship? Also if you out there reading this post, and this story is similar to yours, better take a stand and do what is best for you, personally, I feel there is no need be tied to someone who doesn’t what commitment, you get to move on with your life instead of going back and front and being tied down in a long relationship leading to no direction. What do you think????????????????