Big questions of the day?

For the men, please answer this question?

Take for instance, your wife and your son are in a boat, and the boat is about to sink, which of them will you save first????????????????

For the ladies, this question goes to you all,

Your hubby and your dad are in a room and the room got caught up in flames with them entrapped inside the room, if you have the opportunity to save someone, who will you go for first???????????????????????

For mothers, this question goes to you all;

Your child and your husband are about to drown in the pool, who will you save first????????????????????

Please readers, give your honest response.

Cheers.

Yesterday, I wrote about how will you feel when you meet your hobby ex. I got a lot of email on this issue. In all the mails there was a particular one that caught my attention.

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My name is Robby, I met my wife 5 years ago. All was well with our marriage until her ex showed up. The worst part of it is, she confessed to me that she thought her ex was late, she said they were actually married before now, that she didn't mention it to me because she felt there is no need since he was late, she wanted to move on and never to speak of him again. But surprisingly he showed up at our front door two weeks ago.

I am so shocked to know my wife was actually married before she met me, and she didn’t mention it to me. Now meeting with the said husband, I am nothing compared to him, he is so handsome, rich and very masculine, I feel so in adequate and out place when I saw him.

Since his visit to my house, my wife has changed completely, she no longer respond to my love making, she is moody all the time, and lately she 's been coming home late without to genuine excuse. I know she is seeing that bastard, when I asked her if she is going to get a divorce from her ex, she always avoid my eyes and not saying anything about it. I am so confused, I love my wife, but I am afraid she is gradually leaving me. What do I do? Please advice.

WORRIED HUSBAND.

Readers, Please adviceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Ladies, coming face to face with your boyfriend's past can be confusing and unsettling experience. But it is something most of us have to do at some point. So what is the best way of handling this trickiest of such situation??????

Well, that the big question of the day..

Here below, a lady shared her experience;

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Sally 25 is feeling depressed and angry, she has been going out with Kenny for two years now and they have never discussed marriage. All well and good, or rather, it was until Sally met Kenny Ex Fiancée Beatrice * at a party given by mutual friends.

"I felt so miserable when I first saw Beatrice, She was tiny, extremely feminine and had stunning eyes, a perfectly chiseled nose and a full sexy mouth. She was every man's dream. How could Kenny not wish he was still engaged to her instead of me?

What made it much worst was that Beatrice- you guessed it- had thrown Kenny over for someone else." It seems men just go crazy for her and now that I have met her, I can see why I really wish I have never asked to meet her, Now I have seen for myself just how gorgeous, how special she is, I am sure Kenny thinks of me as second best," says Sally, sadly because he goes on and on endlessly talking about Beatrice, " I am sure he still feels bad about being dumped by her, I do not want to marry him, until he is really over her and has gotten her out of his system for good, after all, who wants to be someone's second best?"

Uhhhhhm, welcome back readers;

You can agree with me that Sally was feeling so miserable, because she met her boyfriend ex fiancée.

Ladies, personally, I feel it is better not to think about meeting your husband or boyfriend ex fiancée. I know one might be curious to know how she looks like, but remember, like they say" Curiosity Kills the Cat". Be warned, too much interest in your hubby ex might be unhealthy. It could indicate a strong sense of insecurity about the present relationship and also you might feel jealous to know she once had your man. So, it is better to avoid meeting your hobby’s ex.

With all this in mind, readers feel free to contribute on this issue or tell us a previous experience.

Peace.