For some days now, I have been very busy at work, leaving me no time to write my posts, well, well am fully back. Today am writing on the topic single and still searching. (SSS). “I named it THE THREE S”.”

Are you single and still searching for Mr. Right or Ms Right? I want you to know that there is no Mr. right or Ms right. All you have to do is to find a
person you like, and if you are lucky to fall in love with him, good for you, than after that try to make him suit what you want. Don't ask me how? Because love can help you out. I know some people can be really difficult to change, but with a little pressure, with patience, Love, you can be able to make your ideal man from him.

Talking about single and still searching, there is this story about a young lady. In her early twenties, she had lots of admirers, she thought she was just too good and to polished for any man, she decided to be a medical doctor and she went to the united state to practice. She got her doctorate degree in the States and a very good job, but she kept on changing guys like clothes, thinking she will find Mr. Right who will be perfect in all ways.

She had her list of the qualities of the kind of guy she wants to date, the qualities were;:
1) He must be rich, if possible owns his own Aircraft or private jet
2) He must be handsome, presentable
30 He must be educated and sharp.

Having all this qualities in her mind, she went on and on searching for Mr. Perfect until she got to her mid forties. Before her 40th birthday, she has had series of relationships which she threw away like a pack of cards just because she finds out that the guys aren't Mr. Right.

At forty six, she has never been married, no kids of hers. But she had all the wealth she could think of, but she wasn't a fulfilled woman. In her search for Mr right, she decided to change her location from the states to her home country in Africa, thinking she will get a man that suits her criteria.

When she got back home, the men she met was ready to take advantage of her situation, they saw how desperate she was to get married, for once she dropped those qualities she said she needed in a man, she was ready to marry just anyone, because in a few years time, she will be fifty years, guys weren't ready to settle with such a rich old cow, as they termed her, they only dated her for her money and wasn't ready to get committed.

So unfortunately for her, at 68, she died a frustrated woman, with all her wealth she just couldn't find happiness or buy herself love.

OOOOH What a story. So are you out there, still searching for Mr Right and Ms Right, please wake up, such things only exist in romantic novels and best sellers movies. There is this saying “Make Hay while the sun shines" otherwise it will be too late. So if you have a relationship, try and make it work, stop looking else where for better options, just one little touch from you, your guy or your babe will be just what you need in a man or in a woman.

To all my single sisters and single brothers out there who are “STILL SINGLE N’ SEARCHING” I wish you luck, but be very careful so you won’t make a mistake.

Peace:wave: