Have you ever been heartbroken by someone you love? I know the answer is YES, don’t’ deny it, because am 100% sure it has happened to you before. Your best friend can break your heart, your parents can break your heart, your lover can break your heart, your husband or wife can break your heart .I can go on and on, because the list is never ending.
A friend of mine came visiting my house last night and she told me a very pathetic true life story. About a mother and daughter who got pregnant for the same man. Please read on!!!
Lizzy was happily married to Johnson. Lizzy already had a daughter for another man in her teenage years before she got married to Johnson. The daughter was sixteen when her mum got married to her step dad. So she moved in to her step dad’s house with her mum. Unknown to Lizzy, her husband was busy sleeping with her daughter and herself at almost the same time. Unfortunately, the teenage girl got pregnant for the step dad, but she was scared to tell her mum what had been going on behind her. When Lizzy noticed that her daughter was pregnant, she got infuriated when she refused to disclose the identity of the man who impregnated her, so she simply went to dump her pregnant daughter with her parents in the village. Meanwhile, Lizzy was pregnant also. While all this was happening, her husband kept mute, because he was the initiator of everything, he concealed his evil act within himself and allowed the young innocent teenage girl to bear the burden of irresponsibility instead of him the real culprit for irresponsible act. Nine months later, the teenage girl was ready to put to bed, but alas!!! She couldn’t. The midwives and doctors tried all they could to bring the baby out but no avail, she was in pains but she couldn’t deliver her baby. They now had to call the traditional council in the community to look into her case.
NOTE:
In Africa, there are some certain things which are not suppose to be done by people of that community, it is referred to as a “TABOO”. When cases like this story occurs, the person suffers a kind of punishment which might eventually lead to death, if the person doesn’t tell the world what he or she did in the secret.
“Sorry for the break in my write up, now, the story continues;”
When the traditional council in that community came to see the teenage girl struggling to deliver her baby, they now asked her to confess who the father of her baby was? dear readers, she refused to talk, because she couldn’t bear the shame to tell the world that the father of her unborn child is her mum’s husband.”Well readers, this young girl was in labour for five days, when she now knew that if she doesn’t tell who the father of her child was, she will die, she now decided to tell the truth. Immediately she did, the unbelievable happened; she delivered a bouncing baby boy who was a replica of her mum’s husband. When Lizzy, her mum heard the story she was heart broken, she couldn’t bear the shame, she packed out of her matrimonial home, she develop high blood pressure in the process and eventually she got an heart attack and died two years ago.
Uhhhhhm, as you all can see from the above story, heart break leads to death when it is not properly handled. So many people suffer from heart break of all sorts, especially lovers.
Here below, are some various forms of heart break:
When you find your love one cheating on you, it breaks your heart, especially when he or she cheats with your best friend and not just that he go ahead to dump you and marry her, that action alone of his could make you develop an heart attack.
-Also, when you are betrayed by your best friend, maybe she goes ahead to say bad things about you to your spouse and not just that, he or she reveals your secrets you shared with her, you will end up heart broken.
-When your parents fail to take up their responsibility as parents, and you are pushed to the world to find a means of taking care of yourself and maybe, you will end up prostituting or going into robbery as a result of this you are heartbroken.
Knowing all this forms of heartbreak listed above and many others not listed, you have to be careful, the truth is, you can’t avoid it, at times it just happened, but the only thing you can avoid, is not to allow any form of heart break to destroy you. No matter how terrible it is, you still have to move on, life doesn’t ends there, and there is this saying that “every disappointment there is always a blessing attached to it”.
TIPS TO PRACTICE WHEN YOU EXPERIENCE HEART BREAK
1)Always look to the bright side of every situation
2)Never, ever give up. Refused to lose faith in life
3)Don’t allow depression to eat up your personality, because if you do, you might end up in a psychiatrist home, or in the grave and iam sure you don't want that to happen
4)If you are dumped by a lover, then have it at the back of your mind, that lover doesn’t deserve you and the best is yet to come.
“Oooops” I think I have to stop here, soon they will be no more space for me to write anything and also I have to tidy up my office and put some finishing touches to the documents am sending to the bank.
Finally, “ To my friends out there, wake up from that depression mood, move ahead, make new friends if need be, enjoy life and don’t kill yourself because of any form of heart break, you know why? “because you are unique in the eyes of God” YOU ARE SPECIAL!!!!. I havvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvve to gooooooooooooooooooooooo.
Luv ya all.
