IT IS MONDAY AGAIN", life returns to normal after weekend. Uhmm, my weekend was very hectic, I attended three wedding receptions and it was really a thrilling experience for me. You could see the brides smiling and dancing that at last they are free from heartbreak, while the men were'nt too exited about loosing their freedom. Well, they just have to get used to the fact of being married and responsible.

Back to the business of the day, in my last post, I wrote about those three little word " I Love you" and i got quite exciting comments which am going to talk about on today’s post. I want to use this medium to say thanks to Uncle frank, you are gem keep it up and also thanks to Tikonin.

In my last post, I made a statement that "Love is Blind". Most people always disagree with this statement either because they haven’t had the opportunity to experience real love, or they keep looking for love in the wrong place. I am going to highlight a few points showing why love is blind:
1) Love is blind when a rich guy marries a poor girl
2) Love is blind when a rich society lady marries a mere houseboy.
3) Love is blind when a guy marries a disable woman
4) Love is blind when a guy marries a prostitute
5) Love is blind when a man marries his house help
6)Love is blind when a 50 years old woman marries a twenty years old man.
7)Love is blind when a lady marries an armed robber

To mention but a few, when love is blind, the parties involve refuses to see what others are seeing, they remain blind to reality of things and they tend to act based on their hearts. The "Titanic" movie is a clear description of love being blind. In the movie, Rose the lead actress who came from a wealthy background fell in love with Jack an hustler trying to look for means of survival. But you know the amazing thing about love, is that no matter how opposition might be in the very beginning against both parties being in love, they always end up victorious, conquering all oppositions. That makes love unique above any other thing.

Furthermore, talking about the difference between “Love and Lust”. Uhmm, this topic is rather difficult to talk about, because people have their own opinion about the two words. I will just try and summarize both meanings.

Love is pure; it is a deep intense feeling for someone, which is normally felt in the heart region. At times just thinking about someone you feel deeply for, you get this heart beats and get excited immediately. You want to be with the person all the time, you want to make love to the person, “mind you” Make love” not “Make Sex”. Making love is different from having Sex. The aspect of making love, ties the bond of love between lovers and makes them a complete whole, while the aspect of having sex, is just for the fun of it, because immediately after the act, both parties involve in most cases get bored with each other company.

Lust is when one has an intense sexual desire and needs to satisfy his or her needs with anyone available on sight. That is the reason most men visits brothel just to quench their desires. Also, the attractive features of a lady can get a man lust after her body and not her person. Lust to get more money makes ladies to turn to prostitution or to trade their body in return for cash. So they are having Sex, not making love, in other to meet their needs in terms of cash for the ladies and in terms of lust for the men.

Furthermore, knowing the difference between Love and Lust. Lets now see how to recognized real love.

SIGNS TO NOTICE WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE
1)When you are in Love, you tend to miss the other party a lot, things you can’t tolerate with other people you tend to tolerate with the person you are in love with.
2)When you are in Love, the sight of the person you love puts smile on your face every time.
3)When you are in Love, you find out that whenever the other party hurts you, you easily forgive.
4)When you are in Love, you always look forward to make love to the person you love and you find it very difficult to cheat on the person.
5)When you are in love, you guide your lover jealously.
6)When you are in love, you are ready to do anything to please your lover and lastly when you are in Love you feel so much peace with your lover, to the extent of wanting to share your whole life with him or her.
7)When you are the love, you feel the pain of your lover, you feel the joy of your lover and you share ever thing with your loved one.

These signs above are just tips of knowing when you are in love with someone, there are just too numerous to mention.

Now, knowing all these about Love and lust, you might want to ask:”What’s the best formula for keeping love”?

The best formula for keeping Love as soon as you found it, is as follows;
1)Always use those three little words;” I Love you” every time.
2)Always share things with your loved ones, love should be reciprocal.
3)Don’t cheat on your loved ones by sleeping with other people
4)Always communicate with each other at all time, communication makes you to understand each other deeply.

I think I have to stop here for today. I have to leave to the office now. Have a blessed week ahead of you.

I love you all.